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The Virgin Nerd

The Secret to a Happy Life
Love - Belonging - Friendship - Family - Sexual Intimacy are essential for a thriving human life
The impact of love and relationships on happiness may be even more profound and long-lasting than the effects of sex alone. Harvard University's 85-year study on human happiness - believed to be the longest study of its kind - concluded that the quality of our relationships with others is the single most important predictor of happiness and well-being
Having Sex and Love Are Part of Being Human
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All people are sexual. Human beings are sexual from the time they are born until they die. It is natural to express sexual feelings in a variety of ways. People engage in healthy sexual behavior for a variety of reasons, including expressing caring and love, to experience intimacy and connection with another, to share pleasure, to bring new life into the world, and to experience fun and relaxation. Every one of the eight billion people on our planet was produced by couples having sex. Each of us is the result of 700,000 of our ancestors having sex in the 350,000 matings that preceded the one that produced us.

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You, me, our parents, friends, neighbors, kids, grandkids, everyone we see, all the eight billion people on earth were produced by a couple. Our whole civilization, society, community, and family are based on couples having sex.
Doing precisely what those kids are doing in the picture.

No person depicted on these pages is doing anything dirty, illegal, immoral, unethical, hurtful, unkind, sinful, evil, vicious, vile, or wicked. Most are doing what is natural, joyful, healthy, fun, appropriate, socially expected, and human.
Sex is a biological driver of every person's life. The people skills and relationships a human develops from childhood start with sex. Sex > Couple > Family > Society. Sex is the forerunner of Love and the couple. Without the couple, there is no family. An individual who is not part of a couple or family cannot fully participate in society. He does not feel part of a community of others who are coupled.
 Sex is the biggest thing in all our lives.

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No kid once laid is ever going to quit.

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Every high school kid is experiencing the physical and psychological changes of puberty and exposure to the world of adult sexuality. Most kids in High School are already having sex. Ten percent start in Junior High. Half of High School sophomores are already having sex. Almost all the rest will be sexually active before they graduate. Can you imagine the loneliness and misery of a person raised in ignorance and lacking the social skills to participate in the most fundamental birthright of all the family, friends, and people around them?

A solitary Hell

Consider the folks in that 11% wedge of virgin adults - - many lead lonely, depressed lives. Virgin teens, socially inept Dweebs, Nerds, Dorks, and the disenfranchised from our couple-based society can suffer from horrible loneliness, depression, and misery. Why Sex Matters.
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Sex: How to go about it

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Kissing, kissing, get in the mood.
Get naked. Excitement.
Foreplay, get the penis hard, the vagina slippery.
Insertion, Wow! Feels great.
In and out. In and out. Fuck and Fuck.
Deeper, Deeper, Orgasm, Ejaculation.
Resolution, Satisfaction, Joy, Love.
Nothing in life feels better.

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Fucking, screwing, and synchronized thrusting
The ultimate joy of shared pleasure 
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What does it feel like to put my penis into my girlfriend?

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What does it feel like to have my boyfriend's penis inside my vagina?

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Why do both of us feel so great and energized while we fuck?


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Every member of this family makes love

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Without knowledge and discussion, kids cannot understand what is expected. Many parents (my parents) did not instruct their kids about sexuality, body, emotions, and passion. These are taboo subjects not discussed in the family, schools, and church. The result is misery and suicide for too many.

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Parental Responsibility for Sex Ed

A child's job is to grow up. A parent's job is to help them.
Where are you on the age of first sex chart above?
Where do you think your kids should be?
How are you going to help them get there?

Some parents abdicated their responsibilities in this fundamental aspect of life. Parents, society, and churches must teach sexuality, body, emotions, and passion. Withholding knowledge, teaching, and nurturing of a child's sexuality is a violation of children's rights. A cruel crime against the child and society.
A child is not a thing.

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Parents are responsible for the development of their children into fully functioning people.
Parents and their children make up the family.
Families are what make life satisfying and fun.

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Parents have sex to make babies.


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And to Play


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Joy, pleasure, fun, excitement, satisfaction, and health.
When do most children first learn about sexual intercourse?

After Roe, teens are teaching themselves sex ed because the adults won't. (in PDF) The teen birth rate in the United States - 16.7 births per 1,000 females in 2019 - is consistently among the highest in the developed world. Today! Just as it was when I was young. The current cause of so much grief, misery, depression, and suicide.

Here are three things every third-grade boy and girl needs to know in detail:

All boys have a penis that gets stiff and sticks out
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All animals mate by squirting semen into the vagina


All People Enjoy the Fun, Joy, Feelings, and Love of Mating

Religious Responsibility for Sex Ed

Sex permeates religious dogma because sexuality is a fundamental aspect of human experience.

Unitarian Universalist OWL Program "Honest, accurate information about sexuality - - dismantles stereotypes and assumptions, builds self-acceptance and self-esteem, fosters healthy relationships, improves decision making, and has the potential to save lives." Why sex matters for every youngster. "Talking about sex and sexuality is the missing link to prevent a whole bunch of problems later in life, low self-esteem, depression, guilt, body image problems, increased risk of sexual abuse, following the pack, and looking for love in all the wrong places are just a few of the long-term problems," including a substantial risk of suicide.


Father (now Bishop) Barron, a very articulate and likable spokesman for Catholicism, explains what is going on. https://youtu.be/iOK0q4XX1YM . He says, "I urge you to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, wholly pleasing to God. Sacrifice the whole of yourself: mind, will, passion, emotions, body, sexuality." The rub is that the churches (almost all of them) and my parents (and our society) do not allow discussion or teaching about mind, will, passion, emotions, body, and sexuality.
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Here is an illuminating video of how the other eight billion people live.

All sorts of religions and ways of life.
Evidence of lots and lots of Sex and Love.

 


Having Sex is Part of Being Human

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