Having Sex and Love Are Part of
Being Human
Kissing, kissing, get
in the mood.
Get naked. Excitement.
Foreplay, get the penis hard, the vagina slippery.
Insertion, Wow! Feels great.
In and out. In and out. Fuck and Fuck.
Deeper, Deeper, Orgasm, Ejaculation.
Resolution, Satisfaction, Joy, Love.
Nothing in life feels better.
What does it feel like to put my penis into my girlfriend?
What does it feel like to have my boyfriend's penis inside my
vagina?
Why do both of us feel so great and energized while we fuck?
Sex
consistently ranks among the most powerful contributors to human happiness. A comprehensive study
analyzing over 1.3 million real-time observations from more than 20,000 people
found that sexual activity was the number one activity most strongly associated
with happiness, surpassing theater, dance, concerts, museum visits, and even
sports and exercise. This finding underscores the fundamental role that sexual
pleasure plays in human well-being.
All
people are sexual. Human beings are sexual from the time they are born until
they die. It is natural to express sexual feelings in a variety of ways. People
engage in healthy sexual behavior for a variety of reasons, including to express caring and love, to experience
intimacy and connection with another, to share
pleasure, to bring new life into the world, and to experience fun and relaxation. Every one of the 8 billion
people on our planet was produced by couples having sex. Each of us is the
result of 700,000 of our ancestors having sex in the 350,000 matings that preceded
the one that produced us.
Love - Belonging - Friendship - Family - Sexual Intimacy are
essential for a thriving human life
The
impact of love and relationships on happiness may be even more profound and
long-lasting than the effects of sex alone. Harvard University's 85-year study
on human happiness - believed to be the longest study of its kind - concluded
that the quality of our relationships with others is the single most important
predictor of happiness and well-being
You, me,
our parents, friends, neighbors, kids, grandkids, everyone we see, all the
eight billion people on earth were produced by a couple. Our whole
civilization, society, community, and family are based on couples having sex.
Doing
precisely what those kids are doing in the picture.
No person depicted on
these pages is doing anything dirty, illegal, immoral, unethical, hurtful,
unkind, sinful, evil, vicious, vile, or wicked. Most are doing what is natural,
joyful, healthy, fun, appropriate, socially expected, and human.
Children raised on farms and in primitive tribes observe human
nudity and animal sexuality firsthand.
Sex
is a biological driver of every person's life. The interpersonal skills and
relationships a human develops from childhood start
with sex. Sex > Couple > Family > Society. Sex is the
forerunner of Love and the couple. Without the couple, there is no family. An
individual not part of a couple and family cannot fully participate in society.
He does not feel part of a community or relate to
others who are coupled. Sex is the biggest something in all our lives.
Every
high school kid is experiencing the physical and psychological changes of
puberty and exposure to the world of adult sexuality. Most kids in High School
are already having sex. 10% start in Junior High. Half
of High School sophomores are already having sex. Almost all the rest will be
sexually active before they graduate. Almost everybody is sexually active before
marriage. Teen chastity is
cruel and unrealistic. The median age of first marriage is about 28, the
median for first sex is 17, most people have sex before marriage. It is silly
to pretend otherwise.
Consider the folks in that 11% wedge of virgin adults - -
many lead lonely, depressed lives.
Virgin teens, socially
inept Dweebs, Nerds,
Dorks,
and the disenfranchised from our couple-based society can suffer from horrible loneliness, depression, and misery. Why Sex Matters.
Parental Responsibility for Sex Ed
A
child's job is to grow up. A parent's job is to help them.
Where are you on the age of first sex chart above?
Where do you think your kids should be?
How are you going to help them get there?
Some parents
abdicated their responsibilities in this fundamental aspect of life. Parents,
society, and churches must teach sexuality, body, emotions, and passion. Withholding
knowledge, teaching, and nurturing of a child's sexuality is a violation of
children's rights. A cruel crime against the child and society.
A child is not a thing.
Parents are responsible for the development of
their children into fully functioning people.
Parents and their children make up the family.
Families are what make life satisfying and fun.
Joy, pleasure, fun, excitement, satisfaction, health.
When do most children first learn about sexual intercourse?
Here are three things every 3rd-grade boy and girl needs to know in detail:
All boys have a penis that gets stiff and sticks out
All animals mate by
squirting semen into the vagina
Religious
Responsibility for Sex Ed
Sex permeates
religious dogma because sexuality is a fundamental aspect of human experience.
Father (now Bishop) Barron, a very articulate and likable
spokesman for Catholicism, explains what is going on. https://youtu.be/iOK0q4XX1YM . He says,
"I urge you to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, wholly pleasing to
God. Sacrifice the whole of yourself: mind, will, passion, emotions, body,
sexuality." The rub is that the churches (almost all of them) and my
parents (and our society) do not allow discussion or teaching about mind,
will, passion, emotions, body, and sexuality.
Without knowledge and discussion, kids cannot understand what is expected. Many
parents (my parents) did not instruct their kids about sexuality, body,
emotions, and passion. These are taboo subjects not discussed in the
family, schools, and church. The result is misery and suicide for too many. Why Sex Matters.
Imagine the hundreds of thousands of kids told, "You must pray to the
Virgin Mary!" without the slightest clue what virgin means. Mary becomes
like the Tooth Fairy and Santa Claus, mythical beings. And babies come from the
stork.
11% of adults have not experienced sex largely because of
taboos imposed by most of us, who have sex several times a week. These
taboos are evil. Most stem from religious dogma - - All
religions. The derivative churches and my family abdicated their
responsibilities in this fundamental aspect of life. Parents, society, and
churches must teach sexuality, body, emotions, and passion.
Unitarian Universalist
OWL Program "Honest, accurate
information about sexuality - - dismantles stereotypes and assumptions, builds
self-acceptance and self-esteem, fosters healthy relationships, improves
decision making, and has the potential to save lives." Why sex matters for every youngster. "Talking
about sex and sexuality is the missing link to prevent a whole bunch of
problems later in life, low self-esteem, depression, guilt, body image
problems, increased risk of sexual abuse, following the pack, and looking for
love in all the wrong places are just a few of the long-term problems,"
including a substantial risk of suicide.
Every member of most families fuck.
Abortion, Contraception, and Sex
Education
Here is a sermon by Bishop Baron, The Most Pressing Moral Issue of
Our Time. He points out that human beings
begin at conception and must be protected and nurtured as a moral and legal
principle.
What
I believe to be valid and important.
What the
Roman Catholic Church he represents fails in every respect to do. Hypocrisy.
Mendacity. Cruelty.
It is not reasonable to separate the issues of abortion, contraception, and sex education. The Roman Catholics, Muslim Sects, and many Evangelical Christians preach and fund efforts to ban all three - - pure evil.
Abortion is prevented most effectively by appropriate sex
education, ready knowledge and availability of contraceptives, and intelligent
discussion and public argument. Public demonstrations and shouting about
"baby killers" are counterproductive, offensive, and stupid.
This is still going on. Here is one diocese's efforts to suppress effective sex education.
These sick, perverted, evil religious or social belief systems advocate keeping
little kids from knowing about sex. That
is horrible.
The pressing moral issue is to preserve
and nurture human life for all people for all their lives, not just the
first nine months. Actions should be advocated and
discussed for the health and welfare of parents well before conception and
children for a lifetime after. Abortion is almost non-existent in
countries with universal health care, sex education, and free access to birth
control.
Here is an illuminating
video of how the other 8 billion people live.
All
sorts of religions and ways of life.
Evidence of lots and lots of Sex and Love.
Having Sex is Part of Being
Human
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