The Secret to a Happy Life
Love - Belonging - Friendship - Family - Sexual Intimacy are essential
for a thriving human life
The
impact of love and relationships on happiness may be even more profound and
long-lasting than the effects of sex alone. Harvard University's 85-year study
on human happiness - believed to be the longest study of its kind - concluded
that the quality of our relationships with others is the single most important
predictor of happiness and well-being
Having Sex and Love Are Part of
Being Human
All people are sexual. Human beings are sexual from the time they
are born until they die. It is natural to express sexual feelings in a variety
of ways. People engage in healthy sexual behavior for a variety of reasons,
including expressing caring and love, to experience intimacy and connection
with another, to share pleasure, to bring new life into the world, and to
experience fun and relaxation. Every one of the eight billion people on our
planet was produced by couples having sex. Each of us is the result of 700,000
of our ancestors having sex in the 350,000 matings that
preceded the one that produced us.
You, me,
our parents, friends, neighbors, kids, grandkids, everyone we see, all the
eight billion people on earth were produced by a couple. Our whole
civilization, society, community, and family are based on couples having sex.
Doing
precisely what those kids are doing in the picture.
No
person depicted on these pages is doing anything dirty, illegal, immoral,
unethical, hurtful, unkind, sinful, evil, vicious, vile, or wicked. Most are
doing what is natural, joyful, healthy, fun, appropriate, socially expected,
and human.
Sex is a biological driver of every person's life. The people
skills and relationships a human develops from childhood start with sex. Sex
> Couple > Family > Society. Sex is the forerunner of Love and the
couple. Without the couple, there is no family. An individual who is not part
of a couple or family cannot fully participate in society. He does not feel
part of a community of others who are coupled.
Sex is the biggest thing in all our
lives.
No
kid once laid is ever going to quit.
Every
high school kid is experiencing the physical and psychological changes of
puberty and exposure to the world of adult sexuality. Most kids in High School
are already having sex. Ten percent start in Junior High.
Half of High School sophomores are already having sex. Almost all the rest will
be sexually active before they graduate. Can you imagine the loneliness and misery of a person raised
in ignorance and lacking the social skills to participate in the most
fundamental birthright of all the family, friends, and people around them?
Consider the folks in that 11% wedge of virgin adults - -
many lead lonely, depressed lives.
Virgin teens, socially
inept Dweebs, Nerds,
Dorks,
and the disenfranchised from our couple-based society can suffer from horrible loneliness, depression, and misery. Why Sex Matters.
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Sex:
How to go about it
Kissing,
kissing, get in the mood.
Get naked. Excitement.
Foreplay, get the penis hard, the vagina slippery.
Insertion, Wow! Feels great.
In and out. In and out. Fuck and Fuck.
Deeper, Deeper, Orgasm, Ejaculation.
Resolution, Satisfaction, Joy, Love.
Nothing in life feels better.
Fucking, screwing, and
synchronized thrusting
The ultimate joy of shared pleasure
Human
Sexuality S - What is Sex? S - Why
Have Sex? S - How Does Sex Feel? S
What does it feel like to put my penis into my girlfriend?
What does it feel like to
have my boyfriend's penis inside my vagina?
Why do both of us feel so great and energized while we fuck?
Every member
of this family makes love
Without knowledge and discussion, kids cannot understand what is
expected. Many parents (my parents) did not instruct their kids about sexuality,
body, emotions, and passion. These are taboo subjects not discussed in the
family, schools, and church. The result is misery and suicide for too many.
Parental Responsibility for Sex Ed
A
child's job is to grow up. A parent's job is to help them.
Where are you on the age of first sex chart above?
Where do you think your kids should be?
How are you going to help them get there?
Some parents
abdicated their responsibilities in this fundamental aspect of life. Parents,
society, and churches must teach sexuality, body, emotions, and passion. Withholding
knowledge, teaching, and nurturing of a child's sexuality is a violation of
children's rights. A cruel crime against the child and society.
A child is not a thing.
Parents are responsible for the development of
their children into fully functioning people.
Parents and their children make up the family.
Families are what make life satisfying and fun.
Joy, pleasure, fun, excitement, satisfaction, and health.
When do most children first learn about sexual intercourse?
Here are three things every third-grade boy and girl needs to know in detail:
All boys have a penis that gets stiff and sticks out
All animals mate by
squirting semen into the vagina
All People Enjoy the Fun, Joy, Feelings,
and Love of Mating
Religious
Responsibility for Sex Ed
Sex permeates
religious dogma because sexuality is a fundamental aspect of human experience.
Unitarian Universalist OWL Program "Honest, accurate information about
sexuality - - dismantles stereotypes and assumptions, builds self-acceptance
and self-esteem, fosters healthy relationships, improves decision
making, and has the potential to save lives." Why sex matters for every youngster. "Talking about sex and sexuality is the missing link to
prevent a whole bunch of problems later in life, low self-esteem, depression,
guilt, body image problems, increased risk of sexual abuse, following the pack,
and looking for love in all the wrong places are just a few of the long-term
problems," including a substantial risk of suicide.
Father (now Bishop) Barron, a very articulate and likable spokesman for
Catholicism, explains what is going on. https://youtu.be/iOK0q4XX1YM
. He says, "I urge you to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, wholly
pleasing to God. Sacrifice the whole of yourself: mind, will, passion,
emotions, body, sexuality." The rub is that the churches (almost all
of them) and my parents (and our society) do not allow discussion or teaching
about mind,
will, passion, emotions, body, and sexuality.
Here is an illuminating
video of how the other eight billion people live.
All
sorts of religions and ways of life.
Evidence of lots and lots of Sex and Love.
Having Sex is Part of Being
Human
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