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Having Sex and Love Are Part of Being Human

 

To Love Someone is Nothing. To be Loved by Someone is Something. To Love Someone Who Loves You is Everything.

Sex and love are fundamental aspects of human experience that significantly impact our happiness and overall well-being. Scientific research consistently demonstrates that these elements are not merely pleasurable activities or emotional states but are critical components that shape our physical health, psychological well-being, and quality of life.

Can you imagine the loneliness and misery of a person raised in ignorance and lacking the social skills to participate in the most fundamental birthright life of all the family, friends, and people around them?
A solitary Hell.



A person and person in bed

Kissing, kissing, get in the mood.
Get naked. Excitement.
Foreplay, get the penis hard, the vagina slippery.
Insertion, Wow! Feels great.
In and out. In and out. Fuck and Fuck.
Deeper, Deeper, Orgasm, Ejaculation.
Resolution, Satisfaction, Joy, Love.
Nothing in life feels better.

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What does it feel like to put my penis into my girlfriend?

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What does it feel like to have my boyfriend's penis inside my vagina?

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Why do both of us feel so great and energized while we fuck?

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Sex consistently ranks among the most powerful contributors to human happiness. A comprehensive study analyzing over 1.3 million real-time observations from more than 20,000 people found that sexual activity was the number one activity most strongly associated with happiness, surpassing theater, dance, concerts, museum visits, and even sports and exercise. This finding underscores the fundamental role that sexual pleasure plays in human well-being.



All people are sexual. Human beings are sexual from the time they are born until they die. It is natural to express sexual feelings in a variety of ways. People engage in healthy sexual behavior for a variety of reasons, including to express caring and love, to experience intimacy and connection with another, to share pleasure, to bring new life into the world, and to experience fun and relaxation. Every one of the 8 billion people on our planet was produced by couples having sex. Each of us is the result of 700,000 of our ancestors having sex in the 350,000 matings that preceded the one that produced us.

Love - Belonging - Friendship - Family - Sexual Intimacy are essential for a thriving human life
The impact of love and relationships on happiness may be even more profound and long-lasting than the effects of sex alone. Harvard University's 85-year study on human happiness - believed to be the longest study of its kind - concluded that the quality of our relationships with others is the single most important predictor of happiness and well-being

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You, me, our parents, friends, neighbors, kids, grandkids, everyone we see, all the eight billion people on earth were produced by a couple. Our whole civilization, society, community, and family are based on couples having sex.
Doing precisely what those kids are doing in the picture.

No person depicted on these pages is doing anything dirty, illegal, immoral, unethical, hurtful, unkind, sinful, evil, vicious, vile, or wicked. Most are doing what is natural, joyful, healthy, fun, appropriate, socially expected, and human.  

 

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Children raised on farms and in primitive tribes observe human nudity and animal sexuality firsthand.

Sex is a biological driver of every person's life. The interpersonal skills and relationships a human develops from childhood start with sex. Sex > Couple > Family > Society. Sex is the forerunner of Love and the couple. Without the couple, there is no family. An individual not part of a couple and family cannot fully participate in society. He does not feel part of a community or relate to others who are coupled. Sex is the biggest something in all our lives.

 


Every high school kid is experiencing the physical and psychological changes of puberty and exposure to the world of adult sexuality. Most kids in High School are already having sex. 10% start in Junior High. Half of High School sophomores are already having sex. Almost all the rest will be sexually active before they graduate. Almost everybody is sexually active before marriage. Teen chastity is cruel and unrealistic. The median age of first marriage is about 28, the median for first sex is 17, most people have sex before marriage. It is silly to pretend otherwise.

 

Consider the folks in that 11% wedge of virgin adults - - many lead lonely, depressed lives. Virgin teens, socially inept Dweebs, Nerds, Dorks, and the disenfranchised from our couple-based society can suffer from horrible loneliness, depression, and misery. Why Sex Matters.

Parental Responsibility for Sex Ed

A child's job is to grow up. A parent's job is to help them.
Where are you on the age of first sex chart above?
Where do you think your kids should be?
How are you going to help them get there?

Some parents abdicated their responsibilities in this fundamental aspect of life. Parents, society, and churches must teach sexuality, body, emotions, and passion. Withholding knowledge, teaching, and nurturing of a child's sexuality is a violation of children's rights. A cruel crime against the child and society.
A child is not a thing.

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Parents are responsible for the development of their children into fully functioning people.
Parents and their children make up the family.
Families are what make life satisfying and fun.

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Parents have sex to make babies.


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And to Play


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Joy, pleasure, fun, excitement, satisfaction, health.
When do most children first learn about sexual intercourse?

After Roe, teens are teaching themselves sex ed because the adults won't. (in PDF) The teen birth rate in the United States - 16.7 births per 1,000 females in 2019 - is consistently among the highest in the developed world. Today! Just as it was when I was young. The current cause of so much grief, misery, depression, and suicide.

Here are three things every 3rd-grade boy and girl needs to know in detail:

All boys have a penis that gets stiff and sticks out
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All animals mate by squirting semen into the vagina


Most people enjoy making love

Religious Responsibility for Sex Ed
Sex permeates religious dogma because sexuality is a fundamental aspect of human experience.

Father (now Bishop) Barron, a very articulate and likable spokesman for Catholicism, explains what is going on. https://youtu.be/iOK0q4XX1YM . He says, "I urge you to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, wholly pleasing to God. Sacrifice the whole of yourself: mind, will, passion, emotions, body, sexuality." The rub is that the churches (almost all of them) and my parents (and our society) do not allow discussion or teaching about mind, will, passion, emotions, body, and sexuality.
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Without knowledge and discussion, kids cannot understand what is expected. Many parents (my parents) did not instruct their kids about sexuality, body, emotions, and passion. These are taboo subjects not discussed in the family, schools, and church. The result is misery and suicide for too many. Why Sex Matters. Imagine the hundreds of thousands of kids told, "You must pray to the Virgin Mary!" without the slightest clue what virgin means. Mary becomes like the Tooth Fairy and Santa Claus, mythical beings. And babies come from the stork.

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11% of adults have not experienced sex largely because of taboos imposed by most of us, who have sex several times a week. These taboos are evil. Most stem from religious dogma - - All religions. The derivative churches and my family abdicated their responsibilities in this fundamental aspect of life. Parents, society, and churches must teach sexuality, body, emotions, and passion.

UU views sexuality as a sacred and integral part of human experience that should be celebrated. It is seen as a source of joy and a means to express love, justice, mutuality, commitment, consent, and pleasure.

Unitarian Universalist OWL Program "Honest, accurate information about sexuality - - dismantles stereotypes and assumptions, builds self-acceptance and self-esteem, fosters healthy relationships, improves decision making, and has the potential to save lives." Why sex matters for every youngster. "Talking about sex and sexuality is the missing link to prevent a whole bunch of problems later in life, low self-esteem, depression, guilt, body image problems, increased risk of sexual abuse, following the pack, and looking for love in all the wrong places are just a few of the long-term problems," including a substantial risk of suicide.


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Every member of most families fuck.

Abortion, Contraception, and Sex Education

Here is a sermon by Bishop Baron, The Most Pressing Moral Issue of Our Time. He points out that human beings begin at conception and must be protected and nurtured as a moral and legal principle.
What I believe to be valid and important.
What the Roman Catholic Church he represents fails in every respect to do. Hypocrisy. Mendacity. Cruelty.

It is not reasonable to separate the issues of abortion, contraception, and sex education. The Roman Catholics, Muslim Sects, and many Evangelical Christians preach and fund efforts to ban all three - - pure evil.

Abortion is prevented most effectively by appropriate sex education, ready knowledge and availability of contraceptives, and intelligent discussion and public argument. Public demonstrations and shouting about "baby killers" are counterproductive, offensive, and stupid.

This is still going on. Here is one diocese's efforts to suppress effective sex education. These sick, perverted, evil religious or social belief systems advocate keeping little kids from knowing about sex. That is horrible.

 

The pressing moral issue is to preserve and nurture human life for all people for all their lives, not just the first nine months. Actions should be advocated and discussed for the health and welfare of parents well before conception and children for a lifetime after. Abortion is almost non-existent in countries with universal health care, sex education, and free access to birth control.

 

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Here is an illuminating video of how the other 8 billion people live.

All sorts of religions and ways of life.
Evidence of lots and lots of Sex and Love.

 


Having Sex is Part of Being Human

4/1/2025 12:37 PM