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LOVE & HAPPINESS
To Love Someone is Nothing. To be Loved
by Someone is Something. To Love Someone Who Loves You is Everything.
The Secret to a Happy Life
Love - Belonging - Friendship - Family - Sexual Intimacy are
essential for a thriving human life
The
impact of love and relationships on happiness may be even more profound and
long-lasting than the effects of sex alone. Harvard University's 85-year study
on human happiness - believed to be the longest study of its kind - concluded
that the quality of our relationships with others is the single most important
predictor of happiness and well-being
Sex and love are fundamental
aspects of human experience that significantly impact our happiness and overall
well-being. Scientific research consistently shows that these elements are not
merely pleasurable activities or emotional states but are critical components
that shape our physical health, psychological well-being, and quality of life.
All people are sexual. Human beings are sexual from the time they
are born until they die. It is natural to express sexual feelings in a variety
of ways. People engage in healthy sexual behavior for a variety of reasons,
including expressing caring and love, to experience intimacy and connection
with another, to share pleasure, to bring new life into the world, and to
experience fun and relaxation. Every one of the eight billion people on our
planet was produced by couples having sex. Each of us is the result of 700,000
of our ancestors having sex in the 350,000 matings that
preceded the one that produced us. You, me, our parents,
friends, neighbors, kids, grandkids, everyone we see, all the eight billion
people on earth were produced by a couple. Our whole civilization, society,
community, and family are based on couples having sex.
Sex is a
biological driver of every person's life. The people skills and relationships a
human develops from childhood start with sex. Sex > Couple > Family
> Society. Sex is the forerunner of Love and the couple. Without the
couple, there is no family. An individual who is not part of a couple or family
cannot fully participate in society. He does not feel part of a community of
others who are coupled. Sex consistently ranks among the most potent
contributors to human happiness. A study analyzing over 1.3
million real-time observations from more than 20,000 people found that sexual
activity was the number one activity most strongly associated with happiness,
surpassing theater, dance, concerts, museum visits, and even sports and
exercise. This finding underscores the fundamental role that sexual pleasure
plays in human happiness and well-being.
Every
high school kid is experiencing the physical and psychological changes of
puberty and exposure to the world of adult sexuality. Most kids in High School
are already having sex. Ten percent start in Junior High.
Half of High School sophomores are already having sex. Almost all the rest will
be sexually active before they graduate. Can you imagine the loneliness and misery of a person raised
in ignorance and lacking the social skills to participate in the most
fundamental birthright of all the family, friends, and people around them?
Consider the folks in that 11% wedge of virgin adults - many
lead lonely, depressed lives.
Virgin teens, socially
inept Dweebs, Nerds,
Dorks,
and the disenfranchised from our couple-based society can suffer from horrible loneliness, depression, and misery. Why Sex Matters.
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