Why
We Enjoy Sex
Joy,
pleasure, fun, excitement, satisfaction, health.
Key
Insights
From Dr. Danoff: Male Sexual Health:
"Sex is life's cheapest luxury and should be fun and relaxing, a simple,
natural pleasure that erases worries, tensions, and burdens. … Using your
penis for the purpose nature intended is one of life's great pleasures and good
for your health in general – for your cardiovascular health, mood, and
psychological well-being. Penis use is a natural tranquilizer with no harmful
side effects.”
“Men who are
sexually frustrated tend to be tense and irritable, while men who are sexually
satisfied and feel good about themselves as sexual beings tend to have a
positive outlook and a warm glow of health. Sex is also excellent for overall
fitness. It benefits circulation, stimulates the nervous system and the
prostate gland, and clears mental cobwebs."
Sexual Intercourse S
Your parents did it. Your grandparents did it. If you want grandkids, your kids
will do it. They must learn what it is.
Why
Good Sex Matters by N.Wise
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"The Health Benefits of Sexual Expression include physical benefits
of sexual activity, such as enhanced overall longevity, reduced risk of
coronary heart disease, and decreased risk of type-2 diabetes. Studies also
have indicated lower rates of prostate cancer in men tied to more frequent
ejaculations and lowered rates of breast cancer in women who are sexually
active. Being sexually active tends to enhance immunity, improve sleep, improve
fertility, improve mood, reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression, and help
people manage chronic pain. And sexual behavior can enhance feelings of
well-being and self-esteem and smooth over rough points in a relationship by
facilitating bonding."
People reporting poor sexual satisfaction were plagued to a greater
or lesser degree with the inability to experience
pleasure in life - a lack of enthusiasm, a deficit in well-being, and a decided
inability to enjoy even the simple pleasures. It was as if these people had
lost their lust for life. Pain was everywhere: depression, anxiety, addiction,
physical ailments, psychic strain, social isolation, financial stress, and
spiritual suffering.
The people who report having healthy or satisfying sex lives feel better,
manifest less depression and anxiety, and experience an overall more complete
sense of happiness. The ability to get pleasure from our genitals and be sexual
is part of the basic equipment that comes with being human."
In addition to supplying the basis of life itself, sex is the family's foundation, leading to everything good in human society. Sex is linked to how we feel about ourselves and relate to others, our family, and the community.
Sex is pair bonding. There are two folks in the picture. At the lowest level,
it is about pleasure.
Having sex is the most pleasurable activity a human being will ever have.
Which Leads
to Families and Making Babies
To make
babies, you have sex.
You rarely have sex just to make babies.
You have sex
for:
Joy, pleasure, fun, excitement,
satisfaction, health.
Having Sex is Part of Being Human
We would not be having sex if it did not feel spectacularly good. It is about mutual pleasuring and having someone else share the feelings. Having a bonded partner is one of life's great satisfactions. Being in Love. The intimacy of relationship. "That dark feeling of being ultimately alone as we struggle through life." "People with intimate relationships live longer and healthier lives and report more personal happiness and satisfaction with how they live.” “Many research studies have shown persuasively that people in intimate relationships live longer and happier lives than those who are not.”
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Sex is a lifetime of
companionship, comfort, pleasure, and satisfaction.
The
Joy of Intimacy When we "make love," we make a more loving
life for ourselves.
Wired
for Love:
"My scientific research on the brain has convinced me that a healthy love
life is as necessary to a person's well-being as nutritious food, exercise, or
clean water. Evolution has specifically sculpted our brains and bodies to build
and benefit from lasting romantic connections. When those connections are
frayed or ruptured, the consequences to our mental and physical health are
devastating." (Stephanie Cacioppo)
How to go about it S
Kissing, kissing, get in the mood.
Get naked. Excitement.
Foreplay, get the penis hard, the vagina slippery.
Insertion, Wow! Feels great.
In and out. In and out. Fuck and Fuck.
Deeper, Deeper, Orgasm, Ejaculation.
Resolution, Satisfaction, Joy, Love.
Nothing in life feels better.
Human
Sexuality S - - What is Sex? S - - Why We Should
Have Sex? S - - How Does Sex Feel? S - - More S
Everyone
pictured here is part of a couple.
Each is enjoying intense pleasure.
The birthright of every human being.
1/13/2025
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