Sex, Joy,
Pleasure, Fun, Excitement, Satisfaction, Health
From Dr.
Danoff: Male Sexual Health:
"Sex is life's cheapest luxury and should be fun and relaxing, a simple,
natural pleasure that erases worries, tensions, and burdens. … Using your
penis for the purpose nature intended is one of life's great pleasures and good
for your health in general – for your cardiovascular health, mood, and
psychological well-being. Penis use is a natural tranquilizer with no harmful
side effects.
Men who are sexually frustrated tend to be tense and irritable, while men who are sexually satisfied and feel good about themselves as sexual beings tend to have a positive outlook and a warm glow of health. Sex is also excellent for overall fitness. It benefits circulation, stimulates the nervous system and the prostate gland, and clears mental cobwebs."
You, me, our parents, our friends, neighbors,
kids, grandkids, everyone we see, every one of the 7 billion people on earth
were produced by a couple. Our whole civilization, society, community, and
family are based on couples having sex. There is nothing "dirty"
about having, talking, writing, and seeing sex. We should rejoice in it and
enjoy it.
The average person has sex - a lot of sex
55% of Americans have sex at least weekly (Durex Survey).
Sexually active 16 to 45-year-old Americans average intercourse 138
times a year (2.6 times/week). Half of High School sophomores are already
having sex.
Your parents did it. Your grandparents did it.
If you want grandkids, your kids will do it.
They must learn what it is. Here is where to start S
Our Whole Lives Assumptions ·
All persons are sexual. ·
Sexuality is a good part of the human experience. · Human beings are sexual from the time they are
born until they die. ·
It is natural to express sexual feelings in a variety of ways. · People engage in healthy sexual behavior for a
variety of reasons, including to express caring and love, to experience
intimacy and connection with another, to share pleasure, to bring new life into
the world, and to experience fun and relaxation. ·
Sexuality in our society is damaged by violence, exploitation, alienation,
dishonesty, abuse of power, and the treatment of persons as objects. · It is healthier for young adolescents to
postpone sexual intercourse.
Why Good Sex Matters
by N.Wise –
"The Health Benefits of Sexual Expression include physical benefits of sexual activity, such as enhanced overall longevity, reduced risk of coronary heart disease, and decreased risk of type-2 diabetes. Studies also have indicated lower rates of prostate cancer in men tied to more frequent ejaculations, and lowered rates of breast cancers in women who are sexually active. Being sexually active tends to enhance immunity, improve sleep, improve fertility, improve mood, reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression, and help people manage chronic pain. And sexual behavior can enhance feelings of well-being and self-esteem and smooth over rough points in a relationship by facilitating bonding."
People reporting poor sexual satisfaction were plagued to a greater or lesser degree with the inability to experience pleasure in life - a lack of enthusiasm, a deficit in well-being, and a decided inability to enjoy even the simple pleasures. It was as if these people had lost their lust for life. Pain was everywhere: depression, anxiety, addiction, physical ailments, psychic strain, social isolation, financial stress, spiritual suffering.
The people who
report having healthy or satisfying sex lives feel better, manifest less
depression and anxiety, and experience an overall more complete sense of
happiness. The ability to get pleasure from our genitals and be sexual is part
of the basic equipment that comes with being human."
In addition to supplying the basis of life itself, sex is the family's foundation, leading to everything good in human society. Sex is linked to how we feel about ourselves and relate to others, our family, and the community.
Sex is pair bonding. There are two
folks in the picture. At the lowest level, it is about pleasure. The feeling
of having sex is the most pleasurable activity a human being will ever have.
We would not be having
sex if it did not feel spectacularly good. It is about mutual pleasuring and
having someone else share the feelings. Having a bonded partner is one of
life's great satisfactions. Being in Love. The
intimacy of relationship. "That dark feeling of being ultimately
alone as we struggle through life" "People who have intimate
relationships live longer and healthier lives and report more personal
happiness and satisfaction with the way they live.” “A number of research studies have shown persuasively that
people in intimate relationships live longer and happier lives than those who
are not.”
Which Leads to Families and Making Babies
Having
Sex is Part of Being Human
To make babies, you have sex.
You rarely have sex just to make babies.
You have sex for:
Joy, pleasure, fun, excitement, satisfaction,
health.
Sex is a lifetime of companionship, comfort, pleasure, and
satisfaction.
The
Joy of Intimacy When we
"make love" we are making a more loving life for ourselves.
Wired
for Love:
"My scientific research on the brain has convinced me that a healthy love
life is as necessary to a person's well-being as nutritious food, exercise, or
clean water. Evolution has sculpted our brains and bodies specifically to build
and benefit from lasting romantic connections. When those connections are
frayed or ruptured, the consequences to our mental and physical health are
devastating." (Stephanie Cacioppo)
Nothing in
life feels better
Human
Sexuality S What
is Sex? S Why Have Sex? S How
Does Sex Feel? S
Everyone
pictured is part of a couple. Each enjoying intense pleasure. The birthright of
every human being.
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